We really have appreciated all the fan mail... It has been heartwarming. (and the common theme has been " we don't know what to say...", which is just fine, because we don't know what to say either.)
So much like the disease, where you can only prove what is not, I offer up these bits of tested phrases that may not be just the best thing to bring comfort and consolation. ============================================================== " I am so sorry that you will have to suffer this horrible thing. So sorry you will have to go through that. It is a terrible way to die and I am so sorry for you"
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"Well, it's not the end of the world..."
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"We were so worried that Pauline would choke to death, and was so glad that didn't happen. I hope you don't die that way, I will pray that you die like she did" ============================================================= and we would like to thank the academy for these comedic nominations, and please vote early and often...